I had a young man to ask me who I had not seen in a while, "why haven't you called me." I didn't know how to respond or what to think. Then I thought to myself, you are the man, you are the pursuer, your supposed to call me. I feel once the lady expreses a mutual interest, it is then the males responsibility to initate things and proceed with the courtship. Proverbs 18:22 states, "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD." So while your waiting on me to call you, I'm waiting on my husband to find me. So who is supposed to call who?
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